How I Handled a “Difficult” Client (and Fixed My Own Mistake)
This blog tells the story of a website project that was flawed from the start due to poor professional decisions. Without a signed agreement and with loose boundaries, communication issues and delays surfaced. The story concludes when the author takes responsibility, pauses the project, enforces proper process, and restores control through structure and clarity.
This is a story about a difficult client.But more importantly, this is a story about my own mistake — and how I corrected it before it turned into a disaster.
The First Mistake
I took a website company profile project from a client.At the beginning, everything looked normal.
Then came the first red flag.
The client asked for a separate personal benefit outside the official project scope.No need to sugarcoat it. I agreed.
I knew it was wrong. I knew it blurred professional boundaries. But I accepted it anyway, because I wanted the project to move forward.
That was my first mistake.
The Second Mistake: Starting Without a Signed Agreement
We agreed on the numbers.I received the initial payment.
But the Project Cooperation Agreement (PKS) was still unsigned.
To be clear:
- I already prepared the agreement from the start.
- I already sent it.
- I already followed up.
But I allowed the project to start anyway.
That was mistake number two.
When Problem Started to Surface
Once the project was running, the real issues appeared:
- The client’s PIC was slow to give feedback
- Messages in the group chat were ignored
- Deadlines became vague
- Communication felt one-sided